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IPD
08-26-2018, 08:49 AM
I guess I feel I've got to get this off my chest. Unfortunately 3sgto, you're one of the few places that hasn't tried to completely silence me yet--so you get to listen to it. :jaded:

There has been a distinct shift in the past decade towards restriction of speech. I'm not going to make this political, so please don't take it that way. I just want to juxtapose what "now" is like vs even say, 2008 or 2005. I've seen firsthand how facts can potentially be rewarded with censorship. It's this way on games, forums, discussions, etc. How pointed arguments against a dubious rationale/logic are met with silencing, and other personal insult ad-hominem posts are met with indifference. How defending oneself against an unjust or unevenly/unfairly applied moderation standard is pointless--those who initiated the actions have already made their minds up.

I myself--in my younger days--had some friction with other members online in the 3/s community. What Alan or others did in response to it was not unjustified--which I can say in retrospect. The great 3sdie censorship aside, actions such as this were done after considerable vitriol (probably on both sides) had been exchanged.

But times have changed I feel. Now it appears that in many places we have to "color inside the lines". Lines which are arbitrary and can unfortunately fall within a political agenda or point of view. And it's not just things that happen to myself that I notice. Conor Daly recently lost a NASCAR sponsorship because of his FATHER using the N-word 30 years ago. There is never an appropriate time to refer to the n-word as anything other than "the n-word"--and even then only as a matter of historical fact. Yet at what point are we going to collectively realize that this is the kind of ex-post-facto punity that--had we dug hard enough--we could undoubtedly find about everyone or his/her ancestors.

It makes no difference if it's a private matter or a public one. Private matters are subject to the subjectiveness and idiom of the empowered individual--which is why recanting an initial, fallacious judgment will never happen. Public matters are subject to mob mentality, and due to the lack of research that many invest into any given situation--fanning the flames is all that happens. There's a knee-jerk math that equates certain views to undesirable labels for those who hold them. For example

Opposing illegal immigration = racist
Opposing Islam for failing to respect human rights = islamophobe

And the list goes on and on. Literally every pet-position currently en-vogue has a derogatory label for those who don't automatically support said position. But these are just the outward labels. Being labeled and nothing more--while tragic--would be an improvement over the current state of affairs. Instead what we have is a toxic brew of self-congratulatory circular-logic. What happens is shockingly more sinister. Person "A" states an opinion which opposes the rationale behind the prevailing, popular views...is seen by a moderator or administrator, "B" who has an agenda/views that align to the prevailing view. Said moderator then (consciously or not) labels the person "A" with a label. Person "B" then sees this label as sufficient justification for any and all punitive acts against person "A", and will always view person "A" through this concocted lens henceforth. It is so malicious of a label that anything person "A" posts about a completely different topic--no matter if it would normally be a position person "B" supports--will be opposed...and simply because of said label. This may even extend to person "B" adopting an even more skewed political view/stance on many issues simply by virtue of wishing to be opposed to everything person "A" stands for.

Which brings me to the point of this post; there isn't "air" anymore. Discussion isn't something we celebrate. It's now seen as a sign of conflict, and therefore bad. The problem with that view is--communication isn't just key; it's everything. Have you ever seen a marriage that survives in the face of poor or no communication? Or most friendships? Communication provides a means to understanding differing points of view and a means to begin building a consensus--which is key for any democracy, quorum, etc. Sometimes that communication isn't pleasant--but that doesn't invalidate the necessity. Nor does it mean that unpleasantness or personal dispute with what is being said justifies silencing others.

So I guess in closing what I'd like to say is that diverse views are to be celebrated--even ones we don't necessarily agree with. That said, I'm deeply concerned that we (meaning western nations) collectively, are creating an echo-chamber around every facet of life. I'm troubled that we appear to be wishing draconian punishments on any/all who oppose the predominant views in society (eg. we want that person to lose his job/house/family/friends/life/etc). How can we celebrate diversity when we seek to snuff it out? Diversity--SHOULD--mean various walks of life, backgrounds and views...not just what I jokingly refer to as "plumbing" (gender) and "tan" (skin color). And the apparent shift from the mainstream political arena to private lives which intersect with conflicts of views...is disturbing. The enforced echo chamber without means a quasi-echo-chamber within; those views in the minority can now only be heard/shared in private. And unfortunately that means neither side of any discussion can balance their own views against facts presented by the other side.

Thanks for listening.

stealthee
08-26-2018, 10:38 AM
I won't quote your entire post, or even go through and pick pieces to quote and comment on, so my response may seem a bit jumbled.

When I read about Daly's loss of sponsorship for something his father said I could do nothing but laugh. This is exactly what I have been saying this shit is coming to. He is being held responsible for something he had ZERO control of. This would be like charging him with murder because it was found out his father killed someone 30 years ago.

Being called a racist (for various reasons) with zero insight is being racist yourself. IE, was having a "discussion" about illegal immigration and I made my points against it and of course I was called out as racist against Mexicans. The problem was I NEVER used the word Mexican in any of my arguments against illegal immigration. I called out the racist caller and turned it on them as being racist just for assuming I am being racist against country. They of course tried to say it was automatically assumed, and blah blah blah, which just made it more obvious they were the ones being racist against me.

More on racism, assuming anything (fight, shooting, etc) involving a black man and a white man (or woman or whatever) is racially motivated without knowing ANYTHING involved in the situation is being racist yourself. How many times have we seen it in the headlines, or on the news WHITE OFFICER SHOOTS BLACK MAN and all that does is create havoc and chaos. People are calling for the officers head, he's put on administrative leave, then its investigated and found to be a justified shooting due to the suspect being uncooperative, combative, etc. The problem is, that part isn't publicized as much because it isn't "newsworthy" or doesn't grab the attention of the viewers.

The media is a huge problem. They are a huge reason why we are in the shape we are in today. With how pussified everyone is becoming they turn and twist every story and they don't post the whole story, only to get people infuriated at each other. The media is basically running this country, and it needs to stop.

j2k4
08-26-2018, 12:54 PM
Um, yes.

To both of you.

I will take the small liberty of reminding everyone that Alinsky's Rules for Radicals is the tactical handbook for everything we see on the Left.

It's easily available, and a quick, useful read.

anyonebutme
08-27-2018, 02:26 AM
google "facts are racist". Have fun and welcome to the new world.

Oh and while you're at it google "chicago bait truck".

I don't want to live in this world anymore.

j2k4
08-27-2018, 07:33 AM
I don't want to live in this world anymore.

Not going to suggest you have a choice.

BaadVR4
08-27-2018, 09:06 PM
Not going to suggest you have a choice.

But he does. Maybe not reasonable, perhaps not legal.....................but he does have choices. Sadly enough, I agree with ABM. And Alinsky's book is useful and (usable) by radicals of every stripe and color.............and of every political ideology................

BaadVR4
08-27-2018, 09:07 PM
Um, yes.

To both of you.

I will take the small liberty of reminding everyone that Alinsky's Rules for Radicals is the tactical handbook for everything we see on the Left.

It's easily available, and a quick, useful read.

And you prove IPD correct.........amazingly correct.

j2k4
08-27-2018, 10:25 PM
And you prove IPD correct.........amazingly correct.

Quit being cryptic, Milt.

Carlos IS correct - what of it?

We're not seeing anything from the Left the formula for which doesn't exist in Alinsky's little tract.

j2k4
08-28-2018, 09:34 AM
google "facts are racist". Have fun and welcome to the new world.

Oh and while you're at it google "chicago bait truck".

I don't want to live in this world anymore.


Not going to suggest you have a choice.


But he does. Maybe not reasonable, perhaps not legal.....................but he does have choices. Sadly enough, I agree with ABM. And Alinsky's book is useful and (usable) by radicals of every stripe and color.............and of every political ideology................

Actually, Milt, no, he does not have a choice, unless he chooses to off himself, which I meant to ensure does not happen - nothing more or less.

Rein yourself in, or make yourself clear.

We all know you're a terrifically intelligent person, so quit fucking around in the weeds trying to be obscure.

BaadVR4
08-28-2018, 10:20 AM
Not trying to be obscure. In that regard:

IPD is correct.

I don't want to live in "this" world, either.

Yes, suicide is one option to no longer live in "this" world. Opting out "and "off the grid" is another. Mood altering substances is a third. Involving yourself in active efforts to change "this" world to one that is livable is a fourth.

One last item. What part of the original post involve "right" and "left" as necessary to the discussion? What difference does your or my political view make?

anyonebutme
08-28-2018, 10:22 AM
Honor, duty, courage, respect, loyalty, integrity, sacrifice. None of those would give me the option of offing stupid people, even if it is for the good of the country. I also can't off myself without dishonor. I do believe a reset is coming and I do have the option of NOT saving stupid people from themselves. I'm perfectly happy watching the world burn, right up until the point their stupidity directly effects my liberty, which is occurring now.

j2k4
08-28-2018, 05:26 PM
Okay.

If words hurt - and they do, by all means, because that's how we do it if we're not using fists or feet - then I will apologize to you both for jumping too quickly.

My perceptions obviously need a good sharpening.

Mr. Spicy Weiner is of course correct in all aspects.

j2k4
08-28-2018, 05:30 PM
And also ABM, who takes a looser rein while typing - the very same things I think, but don't generally say.